Not that Im flattering myself but I honestly feel that the philosophies I have of relationships make so much sense when I advice couples who quarrel over being overly-controlled issues. 

But well, sometimes it takes two hands to safeguard the relationship, not just one. And for mine, it broke because I was too stubborn and bothered by being controlled. Oh well, lesson learnt. 

Gotta move on because I have better things to do.