if my memory dunch fail me, the previous post is on christmas. today i shall talk about relationships.
who doesnt wan to be in love where u can feel the love, the sweetness, the happiness tt the one u love gave? i guessed everyone wants to be in a relationship to have a feel how the sweetness a rs can provide ya?
before u fell in love, u would start chatting with the one u like, and from friends, the both of u started to develop sparks, next, romance will caught the both of u, and who knows? the both of u are in love[:
during the first few mths or weeks, u can feel the sweetness, the care, the concern tt the other party gave u. it's known to be the romantic period, isnt it? well, this period of time can make a person feel radiant, and of cuz, the smiles tt u give are all REAL, not a facade nor a smile tt simply patronise. everyone love to be in this kinda situation, but the reality then start to speaks when the romantic period is over.
couples who are really in love will make their everyday life sweet, even by small gestures. for example, perharps buying sth nice or some little gifts can brighten one's day. or maybe jus a phrase, "i love u" and cheer the other party up. small gestures like this are important in a relationship, esp after the romantic period. this can keep a relationship going, or maybe even stronger, as the othe party can feel tt u reli love him/her. agree with me?
but when reality speaks, no one can ever escape it.
when a rs gets rocky, the most important thing isnt to say how much u love tt person, the most important thing is to COMMUNICATE. communication can improve one's relationship with the other party, and im serious about it. anyway, who dunch noe about this man? *alright, im crapping*
when things start to get serious, for example when a person ask for a breakup, i guess it's reli the time when it's difficult to salvage the rs. what's urs is urs, and wat's not urs, wont be urs at all. i guess everyone have to get this sentence into their mind, including me.
breakup- it makes both parties bleed within. the one who is bleeding the most isnt the one who hears it, it's the one who says it. i guess everyone mus be saying im crazy to say this. but look, when the person who says this still holds some feelings for the other party, when he/she ask for a breakup, do u think tt person would be happy? it isnt at all, and it's a miserable choice to make. it makes one's heart heavy and one's mind in a twirl.
u might be pondering, "why ask for a break when tt person still has feelings for the other party." sometimes it's jus due to some reason. maybe tt person reli has feelings faded for his/her love one. and maybe a breakup would be a wise thing to do, to be fair to the other party, as well as to free tt person. maybe a break can allow tt person to find someone better, or even to lessen one's burden. isnt it? wat hurts the most for the person who says it is when u noe ur love one is deeply hurt, all becuz of the word-BREAKUP. bleeding love, indeed i understand wat bleeding love is.
and like wat a song lyrics goes.. who would remember how sweet when the both of u started this rs, who would remember who says who love who first? it's a sad thing. it reli is.
a relationship can make a person live in heaven, as well as in hell. it's how u make urself live. many ppl say, go with ur heart, follow wat ur heart says. but wait, somehow the heart can be misleading. i dunch noe.. i dunch noe. im not fit to say anyth about love anyway. im an idiot when it comes to love affairs. i got myself bleed in love, as well as the other party as well.
anyway, i jus wanna wish those who are in love all the best. treasure ur love ones when u can, and when tt person yearns to hear sth from u, make sure u tell them. it's always too late to say the three words onli when u mention about breakup. wish everyone the best then(:
there's jus so many things i wanna say. i aint myself at all. i dunch even noe why i write this post for. i guess u might nv get to see wat i write at all. it hurts within, alot i mean. im bleeding when im writing this, im tearing when im reading wat i write. it's fated i guess, it's all fated. there's no way i can change this. ya im stupid, i made the decision myself. but i didnt regret wat i've decide. i noe i made the right choice, cuz like wat u've said before, love dunch come with fear. and i guess u can concentrate on ur studies too, breaking up can lessen ur burden. i guess i wont receive ur calls today, tml, the day after and so forth anymore. i'll miss ur everyth. i wont take out tt necklace hanging on my neck. cuz it's the first gift u gave me.. im gonna have it with me whenever i go, wherever i am. twst, please take care..
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